For Cygnet's fourth birthday she wanted to have a tea party, so that's what we did. Lizard built a couple little tea tables, low enough that the kids could sit on the floor. Grandma made tea party dresses for Cygnet, and all her favorite dolls. I made the cake, and a photo corner with a box of props. We decorated party hats, and picture frames. We played Hot Teapot and Button Button.
I probably won't try to play Button Button again until the kids are older. If you ask a group of preschoolers, "Button, button, who's got the button?" Nine times out of ten the kid with the button will shout, "Me!" They are incapable of keeping secrets.